🌻 一个转念法门 / 99
人与人相处不容易，如果常常很不愉快，不妨试一试：拿一个小本子，写下那个最讨厌的人的十件好事，看能找出几件。能不能每天找出十个看他顺眼的地方？比如他什么事都做得很好。持续写下去，慢慢就会发现：啊！这个人有很多善良处可能是被我忽略的，很多他的用心也是被我忽略的。
夏 无碍行
🌻 A Mind Transformation Method / 99
Getting along with people is not easy. If the experience is usually not pleasant for you, you could have a shot at this: Take a small booklet, write down 10 good things about the person you dislike most and see how many items you could list down. Are you able to discover 10 pleasant points about him or her every day? Eg. He is able to excel in all tasks performed. Continue this procedure every day and slowly you will discover – “Ah! This person has numerous virtuous qualities that could have been ignored by me and most of his diligence are also neglected by me.”
Summer 无碍行